Celebrations.
25 May 2012 1 Comment
in about family members, anniversary blog entries, Uncategorized Tags: Diomita Maurer, Ehesklavin, Jenny Maurer, Laylady Lay, Second Life, Stonehaven
As Diomita wrote in her last blog we are celebrating 4 years since we met and today is 4 years since Mistress Diomita invited me to enter her double cage knowing that I would be there until she alone decided.
When we had met a few days earlier there was a charge in the air that was not like anything else I had ever felt. During the tour of Diomita’s home she had shown me the cage and I remember I had said something along the lines of do you want me to go inside it. Diomita replied that I would, but on my next visit. I knew it would happen and I knew I could not resist.
Before I did enter the cage I had some loose ends to attend to. I was being pursued by somebody else and the time zones were wrong and there was also the feeling that I was not welcome by her partner. I asked Diomita if I might explain in person that I had made up my mind as I do like to do things properly.
So on 25th May 2008 I made the steps to enter the cage. I felt a wide mixture of emotions. I had not done anything like this before and yet I already felt there was trust between us. I knew I would be isolated from everyone I knew and would not be able to wander around enjoying the RP’s at Stonehaven and the banter that went on there. I did not know for how long I would be caged or what else to expect so there was some apprehension but most of all I felt that it was something I had to do, Destiny was controlling me as much as my head or my heart.
Over the 12 days that I was locked up I was kept locked and leashed at all times. Diomta came to visit me every day and we sat and talked and got to know each other very well. My ‘Trial’ would have been over a couple of days earlier but Diomita was obliged to introduce me to Goddess first for her approval. Now this was something that scared me more than the first step into the cage. I really was new to this kind of family hierarchy and Goddess was very comfortable in her role as head. my nerves were on edge and I was worried that I might say the wrong thing and end my chances to wear the collar that made me the property of Mistress Diomita. Needless to say I passed inspection and I met Yar Sam and Tyra for the first time that day too.
So for everybody who knows us in SL, and who follows us in this blog, This time brings back a lot of very special memories to us both. We still like to celebrate this time with some back to the future play, as it brings back the raw feelings that we experienced when we met. We have developed a lot and our roles have evolved over time yet our relationship is strong because of one very firm rule that we both insist on. Mistress Diomita will always own me first and I will always be her slave no matter how you see us or what we are doing at the time this will always be true.
I love you Mistress Diomita
4 years 19th March 2012
18 Mar 2012 3 Comments
in about family members, anniversary blog entries, Exploring sims in Second Life, Uncategorized Tags: Diomita Maurer, Jenny Maurer, Laylady Lay
Has it been four years already?
I want to do something a little different for my 4th year since my rez day celebrations.
Anybody reading this blog regularly can predict what I would normally say so I will keep that short and later on.
What makes SL the place to spend a lot of our waking moments?
Of course you have to say the people and the escape from RL, but to make it work there has to be something that keeps it fresh, different and even new.
I have spoken before about how a lot of places have disappeared in the past and for a time it felt that SL was shrinking especially in the BDSM world. So it came as a big surprise when I found a gateway to new worlds. I found it with one of my hobbies which is looking through profiles. Some are very entertaining. An example of this is one person I came across just recently at Domme a Domme. Her avatar was 24 days old, she had no payment info and was a member of the group which costs to join. Her words in her profile? “ Stop asking me if I am an ALT”.,,,, If you don’t want to be asked then stop making it obvious. ( Smiles)
Anyway, I was looking through random picks and found a place I have not visited before. I didn’t expect much but I was in for a pleasant surprise.
Here is the LM
http://slurl.com/secondlife/Denholme%20Field/115/152/66
There may be a landing point so I took a picture to help describe what you will find there.
Inside the store to my right is a shop. You will see glass doorways. If you are wearing a relay one of the doors will take you to a very good demonstration of how RLV works. There are some example traps on short timers and it will explain how RLV can make SL very exciting for those who like traps or transformations.
You will need an #RLV folder so if you need help with that then Marine Kelley describes it in her blog ( Marine is one of the main developers of RLV and her restraints are by far the best)
http://realrestraint.blogspot.co.uk/2008/10/shared-outfits-tutorial-part-2.html?zx=26a4ca6cdf8bff90
Once you are familiar with RLV, and wear a relay then to my left is garden that is filled with the same glass doors. They are gateways to many sims that use RLV to enhance the experience and for me a lot of new places to visit in the future.
But SL can be a lonely place on your own, especially with traps about. The life we live here is enhanced a 1,000 fold when you share it with good friends.
I have the best friend I could ever wish for in my Mistress, owner and partner Diomita. Together we have a varied collection of family and friends who we enjoy to the full and they make our life in SL very rich. They have helped to keep SL fresh and exciting as we can hardly plan the night ahead let alone the week. However we have some things we would like to plan and one of those is a short SL break together on a personal adventure. If we are off map or not in contact then be assured it is something we have wished for, for a long time.
Before I finish this entry I have something else to share. I have finally found something that has given me a special power. The outfit I wear in the first picture is from XTC. I have found that when I wear it my hands suddenly become full with keys, (winks). So you may see me wearing it a lot, but not too much to wear it out.
Yes even after 4 years I still find SL has everything to keep me here for a long time to come.
Love to you all
Jenny Maurer.
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Mrs. Jenny Maurer – Ehesklavin
24 Oct 2010 1 Comment
in anniversary blog entries Tags: Dragon Cove, Ehesklavin, Euro Brats, Jenny Maurer, Laylady Lay
The German word “Ehe” means marriage, the German word “sklavin” means slave. An “Ehesklavin” is a married slave, in this case my Ehesklavin. The day I married my slave is 2 years ago now. Another reason to write something about my love. But what shall I add what hasn’t been written down here yet?
Particularly the last months of our partnership were coined of a deep mutual understanding, we’re aware of our strengths and weaknesses. We’re very sure about eachother. Jenny is devoted to me more than ever – and I am devoted to her in another way. We’re enjoying eachother and we still explore eachother as well as we explore SL together. Lately we also spend nights just relaxing playing games like Greedy or BondZee. We often go to Venustus, a lesbian dancing club. We met quite a lot new people there and made new friendships.
After the loss of Rivers Rock we had a busy time in SL filled with the search of a new home and moving to Dragon Cove. But the result is a new home, a new start, a place to play, to relax, to dance and to have fun.
Second Life is simple good to us – and makes us happier and more content in our RL’s. Just as it should be. Thank you, Mrs. Jenny Maurer, for the last two years.
I love you, my Ehesklavin !!
2 Years collared
08 May 2010 Leave a Comment
in anniversary blog entries Tags: Laylady Lay, Yasmin Heartsdale
I was collared by Goddess Yasmin Heartsdale on May 8th, 2008. Two years now! As everyone tells me that is nearly a lifetime in SL. Although I don’t agree to that statement it certainly is something very extraordinary that a D/s relation in SL lasts that long. I am very happy and thankful that Goddess and me achieved this anniversary and I hope to have many more anniversaries with her.
If you suppose that only the domme who collars a sub can release the sub then it only depends on the domme how long a collarship lasts. Those who know me know that I take my collar very seriously and that in principle I would agree to this statement. But nonetheless I ask myself how we managed to stay together that long. And I think the answer is quite simple and goes far beyond D/s – we both wanted it. We both invested a lot of ourselves in our relation and we both respect eachother and are willing to accept all our faults and willing to forgive if we’ve been not fair or not obedient (depends from which side you look at our relation).
Two years now. I will not bore you by renarrating these two years. But looking back I see so much that didn’t change and I see also many things that changed. Places changed. I remember the first family island where my trial for Goddess began as she leashed me in her office – Brat Pack Island in Mises West. Where I logged on and off in a cage even after my trial as a daily routine. I remember Stonehaven with Goddess’ place there and my place there. Places that are in my memory. The family changed. Some sisters and subs left and are still close friends – others simply left and we only hope that they’re doing well. The relation to Goddess is something like a backbone in my SL. It is one base for my SL – the second base is Jenny.
Goddess is one of the strictest dommes that I know. She rules her family. And I’ve learned a lot from her. But she’s at the same time a very very caring person. I can and I do rely on her. If I need her help, advise or anything else she always manages to lend me an ear. I trust her. I am her devoted brat and her property. I am proud to be her’s. I love you, Goddess !!
Two years old
18 Mar 2010 2 Comments
in anniversary blog entries Tags: Diomita Maurer, Jenny Maurer, Laylady Lay
Two Years Old
As I have been approaching my two year rez day celebrations I have been pondering what and who have helped me reach it.
Without any doubt the most important person has been Diomita my Mistress, partner and best friend. We complement each other very well and quite often know what the other is about to say. We support one another and share a lot of very good times together. I will always be grateful for knowing you. Anybody who knows us understands how important we are to each other. Thank you my love.
There are lots of times that we are not together and for those times there are 2 things that have contributed to my enjoyment:
I have to admit it was the ability to explore my fantasies with bondage that brought me to SL. Some of the toys and scripts are exquisite and really do fire up my imagination. I have learnt things in SL that I have been able to bring to my RL and also test some of my limits likes and dislikes in a safe environment.
But aside from my best friend and Mistress the thing that makes SL fresh interesting and welcoming are my family and friends. They say in that life you cannot choose your family, only your friends. It is somewhat true in SL too. With a family such as ours members introduce their own members to the family and they become part of the unit. We are blessed right now to have a wonderful family and lovely friends of the family. I know many places where I can go now and I will always get a very friendly welcome, somebody to talk to and help with anything should I need it.
To me SL is a social place with the bonus of bondage play, without the all of the fantastic people I have met over the past 2 years, I could not be sure that I would still be here now.
So to everybody I know Thank you for tolerating the lag and making SL a place I hope to be for many years to come.
Love
Jenny Maurer (Laylady Lay)
The day we met again.
23 May 2009 Leave a Comment
in anniversary blog entries Tags: Diomita Maurer, Laylady Lay
Diomita and I met on the 21st to the 22nd May change over last year.
As part of our celebrations we both had similar ideas to surprise the other.
I found the exact hair clothes and cuffs I wore that day and Diomita found very similar clothes, the same hair etc. We met on the patio at Stonehaven and Diomita asked me for my keys as she did last year. For the next hour or so we re enacted our first meeting and it brought back a flood of great memories.
We had such a lot of fun doing it but that sums up our SL together.
We simply enjoy being together. We make each other smile, and we make the time in SL enjoyable for the other. We care about the feelings of each other and we have grown and developed over these past 12 months as a team and couple.
Sl is all about having fun at the very least it should be a good time and something you look forward returning to. I can honestly say that Diomita has made SL just that for me.
Dio’s 1st year in Second Life Feb 11th 2009
08 Mar 2009 1 Comment
in anniversary blog entries Tags: Diomita Maurer, Laylady Lay, Yasmin Heartsdale
This text was written about my second life. My journey into a many fantasies, real friendships, a wonderful love and may hours where I forgot and will forget the worries of all day life. For my one year Rezz Day I wrote the following note to my friends in 2nd life. This note might tell you a little it about me and how my first year in SL has been.
During the last days I began to look back on this year in SL. And it has been a year of many adventures, expiriences, good converstations, fun and happiness. I thank you all for your support, your friendship, your care or simply that you shared some of my time here with me. Thank you !!
There were some really basic events for me which coined my SL. During my first weeks I came to pandora’s box. I had the luck that I met Mechelle Oceanlane and that night I became a guard in her prison. Pandora’s box is a great place and I want to thank Mechelle for providing it and particulary that she gave me the opportunity to expirience a real great time at her place. I look back to this time in the box with joy and I often plan to get back to the box more often and I am sure I will show up there again.
The second really basic event was that I discoverd Stonehaven. There’s something magic about SH. The community in SH is simply wonderful. Thank you Dirk Massiel for giving us all such a place to come together and to have fun. The patio is a great place to meet people, new members and old friends. I hope that Dirk continues to provide this place to meet for us all.
It was in SH that I met Chriss Rosca and Moss Hastings and Chriss invited me to see her place. And I was impressed! Probably she doesn’t know how much she and Moss influenced my further SL. Her place, her creations and the way she lived her SL seeded something in me. Thank you, Chriss for the good talks we had and for all the technical support you gave to me!
These two places led me to meet Yasmin Heartsdale. I met her first at pandora’s and I didn’t give much attention to this event. It happened one night that I met her and her brats at the patio and I noticed that we were neighbors up in the sky of SH. Yas teached me to step over several limits. And she did that not forcing me, it simply happened. We had some convos about dominance and submission and I wanted to expirience her way. Thus I ended locked up in a cage. She exposed me to her girls and I do remember very well how badly I felt. What impressed me the most was that she released me as she realized that I couldn’t bear it. But she didn’t stepped out of my SL, she talked with me about my feelings and became a friend. Only a short time later when she and myself were at the former brat island I called her Goddess the first time and I do remember this moment as it was yesterday. I ended leashed in her office that night and was released three weeks later as her brat. The collar she locked on me May 8th, 2008 hasn’t be unlocked one day except for technical reasons. Thank you, Goddess. I belong to you. I love you. And I hope to be still yours when I’ll celebrate my 2nd Rezzday.
The brat pack family is home for me. This includes the many friends and former brats and sisters and grandbrats I met beeing in the family. If I list them all I might forget one – hey, I’m not the youngest any more *grins. So, let me just say: Brat or grandbart, former or actual member or just friend of the family …. I love you all. And I hope that I can keep off any drama that do happen in families unfortunately.
Tyra was the one who companied me during my three weeks in trial with Goddess (the attentive reader may notice how this trial coined me) is one of my closet friends in SL. It’s a joy beeing with you and to have someone I can talk with when I need to talk. Or simply to go shopping with!
The third basic event was meeting Jenny. Right now I say it was “the” basic event. What began as a playfull session led quickly to cage her like I was caged by Goddess. She became my sub June 8th, 2008. She’s my slave, my sub, my best friend, my fucktoy, my slut, my pet. we developed a close relation and I am the most spoiled person in SL that I got her total devotion. Consequently we first partnered and then we married Oct, 24th 2008. The happiest and most important day so far in SL for me. Those knowing us know what we mean for eachother. More or less we’re one. Jenny, my wife, I love you to bits !!
Last year I also met Claven Albatros, who was shortly close to the brats and is still close to some and I am one of these. I like her ways and we have good convos and also fun together and there’s always something thrilling between us. She’s an impressive personality and I always take something with me when I meet her, may it be an advice or a technical hint or simply a the memory of a nice time. Thanks Claven.
With Jenny I began to form my own little family within the brat pack. I call it the Eurobrats. Nicola Micheline was my sub for a much too short time and I miss her but we needed to part, Nonetheless I still feel close and the best thing in life is that humans forget bad expierences and remember the good things. So I do remember my time with her as a wonderful expierience. Thank you, Nic .
And there’s vanessa Rendelstein, my slutty sub, my hure – better spoken our sub and hure as she’s also owned by Jenny. Although she’s not online as often as I would like and despite she’s a technical newbie and can be hard work if you need to get her update or edit something she’s a present. Met her and you will find a playful sub who is willing to learn to her way at the feet of her dommes..and you would know why we love her. As we are quite possesive you may not have the chance to expierence that as she’s used by us when she’s online. Thank you for your submission, van.
Last but definitively not least let me say something about Fae Howlett, my lil. Fae is my sister and a full brat like me. Due to time zones I met her more often than other family members and she became close to me more and more. And since Christmas 2008 and with Goddess’ permission she’s my sub sister and sister to Jenny (Don’t try to really examine these relations in comparison to RL*smiles). We simply enjoy eachother and the development in our SL. I love you my lil and I am so proud that you became part of our little family. Thank you for your love and submission.
Unfortunately I am not able to celebrate this occasion with all my friends due to other RL activities. Nonetheless I wanted to write down what I expirenced this last year and to express that I am gratefull to all of you. And if you’re not listed personally here it doesn’t mean that I don’t care, it simply means that I could write books about positive things and wonderful friends I met here and didn’t had the time to write it down … or it means that I simply didn’t open all the cells in my brain where you’re in.
Thank you all for a great year.
Diomita Maurer
